It is tough to be in shock about a situation however it gets worse when you find out that you have been manipulated about the situation. That just adds injury to insult. Now you are in shock about the situation and then you are in shock again to find out you have been manipulated and made out to be the “bad guy” when all you intention was to help. Sometimes trying to help someone is just NOT worth the effort. And that is the hardest shock of all.
Namaste, my friends.