Being blindsided is NOT a good feeling. Being blindsided is hateful and deceptive. Being blindsided is cruel and unprofessional. Being blindsided is a form of manipulation by another person or party. It is an injustice to the person who is being blindsided. This is where being the bigger person is challenging but necessary in order to heal the wounds that being blindsided cause. This is not easy however, by being the bigger person you do not allow the other person or party access to your power. It is your life and you get to choose how to live it and if the other person or party does not like that, that is there issue, not yours. If you are blindsided, stop and allow yourself to feel what you need to feel and express that to the person or party and then move on, knowing that you have been blindsided for a reason. You just may not know what that reason is at the moment, but take comfort in knowing you are being guided to better people, places, and situations. Do not let those that blindsided you have your power. You are worth more than that.
Namaste, my friends.
The "SEMI" Traveller 